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Title: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: Kaldire on December 09, 2014, 10:27:04 PM
My ex wife since 1994 was found murdered today at 9:42am PST in her room. Foul play is suspected.
My daughter and I have no clue how to cope, just wanted to say if you dont hear much from me, this is why.
and ill leave you with a beautiful song and its lyrics. RIP my lulu, kermit will miss you. so will lil J
CRYING so badly (they wont even let me see the body)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ulXuqAYRdM (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ulXuqAYRdM)
Cease accoustic by greg graffins


Blacktop pavement cover me
Like a chemical reaction or a steamroller spreading randomly

There's a distant buzz and low frequency
It tickles my ear, rumbles under my feet
And it shakes the leaves off of every tree
Violently

What pretension, everlasting peace
Everything must cease

Institution on the hill
Like a beacon in the mind of an ancestor to unite a peoples' will

There's a shadowed stain on the west facade
It has spread like decay to enshroud the fraud
And the descendants find it oh so odd
Oh so odd

What pretension, everlasting peace
Everything must cease

Grave memorial, hewn white stone
Like the comforting caress of a mother or a friend you've always known

It evokes such pain and significance
What was once is reduced to remembrance
And the generations pass without recompense

What pretension, everlasting peace
Everything must cease
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: Bad2DaBone on December 09, 2014, 10:35:32 PM
Damn, don't know what to say.  Rest in peace. :(

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9IXAJg4Vm0 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9IXAJg4Vm0)
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: chucklas on December 09, 2014, 10:48:33 PM
Damn, bro.  You and you daughter are in my prayers.
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: SarahLiz on December 10, 2014, 01:22:52 AM
Oh wow.  There are no words...I'm just so very sorry.
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: Kaldire on December 10, 2014, 04:02:59 AM
ty so much for the replies

Im sorry to have posted this, but you guys/gals are like my family and really Ive not many others to talk to about this, most just say.. "serves her right she was on meth" etc.. I dont see it that way,
yea bad things always being done, its why we divorced
But I always will love her, so will our daughter,
I dont know what to do
or how to keep it together for my daughter.
if any advice, id be happy to take it, ive never had a loss like this, and in this way

(her meth dealer and new .. f buddy killed her with a socket wrench over a sack) thats seriously the truth
do I hate her for cheating always and doing drugs, never.. its just sad that I feel and so does my daughter .. that we could have done something.

One of my x's friends who no one has heard of called my daughter to tell her the TRUTH of her moms death, and .. said who it was who killed her and why.
I dont know how to console myself muchless my girl

help...
idk what to say.. sorry
15 hours of crying and my head is going to explode.
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: Baggins on December 10, 2014, 05:14:51 AM
Wow this is terrible. Very little I can say. I'll be praying.
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: DosboxLetsPlay on December 10, 2014, 06:40:53 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that Kal! :(
The only thing I can suggest is for you to spend time with your daughter, do something together. Maybe go on a long overdue trip?
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: Blackthorne on December 10, 2014, 06:54:22 AM
Kal....  I don't know what to say, that's absolutely horrible... I am so sorry, man.


Bt
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: nameless on December 10, 2014, 04:12:12 PM
You and daughter take all the time ya need, dear friends. We'll be here for you.
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: garr on December 10, 2014, 04:20:50 PM
Long time no posting here. Can't do anything except pray for you and your daughter. Come back only when you absolutely feel up to it.
Title: Re: Everything must cease, RIP my lulu (my wife was murdered today)
Post by: sickfiction on December 11, 2014, 03:01:24 PM
So sorry for your loss, Nothing more to say other than take care of yourself and your daughter x