4.5 was awesome, why don't people take it? People need to just relax and enjoy all the humor of it.
Did people really expect a QFG VGA 2-style game from one single dude?
David P. Gray managed to turn out the Hugo's House of Horror series, which while by no means a masterpiece, was pretty playable and offered generally interesting gameplay, passable humor, decent puzzles, and in the case of the first one, a chance to self-educate. The fact that people managed to put up with things like the stupid mummy, the stupid Venus flytraps, and the incredibly, incredibly stupid bridge shows how much appeal the parts that didn't suck had.
I think you just need to get used to the fact that your opinions aren't going to be very widely shared. You seem to revel in the type of things that would upset or offend most other people. There's some enjoyment to be had in that for the open-minded, but it's unreasonable to expect the average person to agree with you.